One summer, I invited 20 men to an exclusive private event to talk about their most intimate dreams and desires — and what we discussed was steamy, sexy, and sensual.
That's why we called it A Summer to Remember.
For 6 weeks, I listened as each of these 20 men shared their heart with me, and I accepted them with unconditional love and an open mind.
Then I stepped into my role as feminine mentor and personal relationships coach to give each of them the guidance they sought with laser sharp guidance. Every man worked with me privately to construct a powerful plan to help them achieve their heart's desires.
The Summer to Remember lasted 6 intensive weeks, and included:
- A weekly 1-hour group webinar that covered topics critical to a man's development: his power, his challenges, his authentic self, his sensuality and erotic power, and his role in a relationship with a good woman
- 2 private phone calls with me, in which every member had the chance to personally discuss his personal difficulties and what kind of man he hoped to become
- 6 interviews with industry leaders who have inside knowledge of what makes a man compelling to a woman, including Luke Reichle, stylist of the hit TV show Castle
- Difficult and effective challenges set before these men to propel them into the next level of their lives and their relationship with women
Each of them accepted the challenges I put before them like true men. They bravely confronted their dark sides. They stepped up to the duties and privileges of nobler men. They were bold and courageous and unafraid. They friggin' rocked!
What happened that summer was intense, profound, and irrevocably life-changing for every man.
That is, every man who could attend.
Many of you wrote to me after the event, disappointed that you weren't able to attend. Your reasons varied: some of you couldn't make the $1,300 price tag work into your budget, while others simply couldn't make the time away from work or from your family.
Some of you were simply too shy. You weren't sure you wanted to put your fears and your heart on the line. You weren't sure you were ready for the challenges, were too afraid to hope this course would actually help you achieve the kind of manhood you wanted for yourself.
I make no judgments. You are where you are. And you have the right to see for yourself that other men — men who struggle with the same challenges you do — succeeded at changing themselves and their lives with this course.
That's why I'm reaching out my hand to invite you in.
And you can keep your face in the shadows.
I've packaged the entire Summer to Remember into a special DVD/CD set so you can watch all the videos, listen to each of the interviews, and get all the materials I recorded and put together for this intimate, life-changing course.
I'm calling it Dear Lover, because as the Summer to Remember progressed, that's how I started to think of every one of the men who participated. Not because we were actually involved physically… but because they confided in me in a way that no one outside of that intimate relationship has ever experienced.
I in turn spoke to them as if I were their lover, communicating freely and honestly and frankly about what I saw in them — and what was keeping me from getting closer.
I'd like to you to experience what that's like.
The Dear Lover package covers the entire 6 week event and includes:
- A DVD packed full of webinar recordings of the Dear Lover sessions for hours of personal coaching so you can get help right now
- 6 expert interviews from industry leaders who live powerful, confident lives — and who know for a fact that real men are self-made, not born
- 6 weeks of homework, practical assignments and an entire curriculum built just for men like you so you have clear action steps and know what to do
- A comprehensive curriculum including tips, guides and direction to a path built for success in all areas of a man's life — particularly on every level of your relationship with women
- Stories, life examples, and relationship-situation feedback from 20 men who've been exactly where you are now — and who have used this course to transform their lives.
You'll even enjoy bonus materials including audio meditations and my personal 'Dear Lover' journal — which you won't want to miss.
Because the best part of this course — I say this without ego — is me.
It's one thing for another man to tell you what has worked for him in developing confidence, taking hold of his power, and becoming magnetically attractive to women.
It's quite another for a woman to tell you why it works and literally be the catalyst that awakens the part of you necessary to claim a quality beautiful woman.
I've traveled the world, met hundreds of fascinating men, and enjoyed being a sensual being with all my heart. I can tell you exactly what compels a woman toward a man — what makes us truly believe that he is worth our full attention and devotion.
You may never have had a relationship with a woman who can teach you what women truly think of you, and bring forth the best of you in a way that you can access anytime, anywhere with anyone.
With this course, that'll change.
In me, you have a personal guide to the world of women. I'll be your caring mentor, your creative muse, your fierce ally and your safe harbour. I hold nothing back. I accept and love everything you are. And I can show you how to become — not a different man — but a more complete, confident, and powerful one. The real you.
The Dear Lover DVD/CD package is very nearly as good as being right there at the live event with me, and it's yours for only $297. Here's what comes inside:
Week 1: Your Challenge
Dear lover,
In your life, you seek validation.
This is normal. We all do. We all carry a voice in our heads, a composite of all the voices through our lives that have told us what we should and shouldn't do.
This week, I teach you to quiet that voice and listen to your own.
You'll discover that you have been living outside of yourself, and find ways to live in your center. We'll explore the intricate balance of your intellect and your intelligence, your mind and your body, your strategies and your instincts.
Somewhere deep inside you, we'll find what you truly want for yourself as a man.
And this knowledge is the secret to letting you feel fully present in yourself and certain of who you are.
The confidence that comes with this knowledge is irresistible to women. We want men who know who they are, who are fully themselves at all times, and who are willing to share that inner self with us.
By the end of this week, you'll discover that not only does the inner self exist — you've needed to be that man far more than you know.
Week 2: Your Relief
Dear lover,
You're like the ocean. Your presence is both irrevocable and ever-changing. You can cast out yourself and pull yourself back in and still never really change who you are.
This week, we'll discuss how to hold onto yourself even as the world — and, often, women — pull you in different directions.
Men have told themselves stories throughout the ages to relieve the burden of others' expectations and demands. The Native American Medicine Wheel shows how life is ever changing, yet holds its core constant at all times. Martial arts from all over the world show how men can be confronted by fear and respond to it without losing their center.
Once you know yourself, you have to hold on to who you are.
When a woman expresses her own feelings, you may feel put upon or changed. But your constancy and your certainty in yourself are what she truly needs in a man, and you must learn to find space within yourself for that constancy.
Learn to be yourself, fully present and strong.
Week 3: Your Cure
Dear lover,
We don't want the nice guy. Neither — contrary to popular belief — do we want a bad boy.
We want a great man.
When we see a man who connects with us without ever losing his grounded connection to his center, we can't resist him. Foolish women are often tricked by the arrogance of the "bad boy," mistaking it for confidence and certainty.
When you truly find your authentic self and are certain in the man you are, you'll find that a completely different kind of woman becomes attracted to you.
A woman who knows what a real man looks like.
Only a real woman can awaken the full depths of a real man, and both of them know this. They're constantly seeking one another amid hundreds of thousands of men and women who don't know who they are, who are scrabbling for someone else to tell them.
When you embrace the man within, you open yourself up to the kind of woman who can help you become more fully that man every day.
You'll never look back.
Week 4: Your Sexuality
Interview: World-renowned coach from the Authentic Man Program explains how to truly comprehend a woman and be authentic with her.
Dear lover,
You make me ache.
When you release the shame you've carried all your life, when you're free of the influence of your family, your society, your religion, the abuses you've suffered, when you break loose of all these and stand naked, completely yourself in the way you move, the touch of your hand…
Lover, you are everything I need.
When you release the burden of trying to be the kind of man you thought you had to be, and live completely within yourself, you become unbearably sexy. You listen to my body and your own, and together we create a passion unlike anything I've ever known.
Learn where you are living. Learn how to grow your power, how to keep a woman completely devoted to you, how to embrace what your body is demanding of you.
Do this, and I will be yours forever.
Week 5: Your Dating
Interview: The top stylist from the hit show Castle on ABC explains the importance of a man's style — and does a full transformation of one of our 20 participants that you won't believe.
Dear lover,
When you claim me, we're on fire together. It's an unstoppable force, hot and forceful and brilliant.
As time goes on, though, being in the fire can stop feeling passionate — and simply feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to sustain passion over time. It's hard work, and it's often tedious, and it sometimes feels like you have to get away.
If you back down from this challenge, then you're not the man I think you are.
We'll argue. We'll disagree about everything from my cooking to your style to where we're going on vacation. We'll dash cold water on the fire, and you need to help keep it burning.
I need to you to be able to weather these storms like a man, to know where to give and where to stand firm, to communicate clearly and effectively so that I know where you stand.
I need you to be aware of how you present yourself, what you say when you meet me for the first time and for the fortieth time, why simple gifts matter to me no matter how long we've been together.
No matter who I am or what my history is, I need you to meet me here and keep the fire alive.
Week 6: Your Freedom
Interview: A personal coach explains what to do to find the woman you want, how to draw her in and get her to say yes, and how to keep it alive even after 24 years of marriage.
Dear lover,
Nothing is easy. Finding and keeping a good woman certainly isn't.
Your life will be full of challenges. You'll sometimes be afraid. You'll wonder if you're up to this. You'll feel uncertain and unworthy.
Every man is afraid. Real men, great men, refuse to let fear rule their lives.
You'll face difficult challenges in this last week. You can conquer them — or you can walk away before you try. It's up to you. If you pass these challenges, the woman of your dreams will give herself to you.
There are three challenges:
- Become a Warrior of the Light
- Know Your Truth
- Remembrance and Gratitude
With these challenges, you learn how to hold on to what you have learned and use it to change your life for the better. You learn how to stay connected to your true self, and how to hold on to the power that makes you a man from here until the end of time.
Choose. You cannot find me or keep me, dear lover, until you complete this challenge.